DIY Wedding
Flower Guide
You’ve chosen your flowers. Now let’s make sure they look exactly the way you imagined. Everything you need to know about quantities, care, conditioning, arranging, and timing — written by our buyers with over 100 years of Portland flower experience.
Step 1
How many stems do I need?
This is the question we hear most. The answer depends on your flowers, arrangement sizes, and style. These are solid starting-point estimates — always add 10% extra as a buffer. If in doubt, ask our experts. Want quantities pre-calculated? See our kits
Stem counts by arrangement type
Bridal bouquet
Example: 12 focal stems + 8 supporting + 6–8 greenery. A cascading bouquet needs 40–55 stems. A petite nosegay: 15–20.
Bridesmaid bouquet
Smaller and simpler than the bridal bouquet. For 4 bridesmaids, plan 60–80 total stems.
Boutonniere
1 focal stem + 1–2 greenery sprigs. For 5 boutonnieres, plan 8–12 stems plus greenery.
Corsage
2–3 small focal blooms plus filler. For 4 corsages, plan 12–18 stems.
Low centerpiece
Hydrangea-based designs use fewer focal stems (8–10 heads + 15–20 supporting). For 10 tables: 300–400 stems.
Tall centerpiece
Include 3–5 tall greenery stems for height plus 30–50 mixed florals and fillers.
Ceremony arch / arbor
Light corner decoration: 80–100 stems. Fully covered arch: 200+. Hydrangea and spray roses are most efficient by volume.
Aisle arrangements
For 12 aisle markers (6 per side), plan 100–180 total stems.
Flower girl basket
Rose petals (available by the bag) are most popular. See our ceremony petals section.
Cake flowers
Use pesticide-free flowers. Ensure stems don’t contact cake surfaces directly. Spray roses work beautifully.
Sample order: 100-guest wedding
| Item | Qty | Est. stems | Notes |
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| Bridal bouquet | 1 | 30–40 | Mix of focal, supporting, and greenery |
| Bridesmaid bouquets | 4 | 60–80 | 15–20 stems each |
| Boutonnieres | 6 | 12–18 | Groom + groomsmen + fathers |
| Corsages | 4 | 12–16 | Mothers + grandmothers |
| Centerpieces (low) | 10 | 300–400 | 30–40 stems per table |
| Ceremony arch (light) | 1 | 80–100 | Florals at corners and center |
| Aisle arrangements | 8 | 80–100 | 10–12 stems each |
| Flower girl petals | 1 bag | — | One bag of rose petals |
| Cake flowers | — | 8–12 | Small spray roses or similar |
| Total before 10% buffer | 582–766 stems | Add 10% ≈ 640–840 total |
This is an estimate. Your actual count depends on stem size, arrangement density, and your chosen varieties. Call us to talk through your specific needs.
Step 2
How to order
Ordering from Portland Wholesale Florist is straightforward once you know the timing rules. The most important thing: don’t leave it too late. Flowers need to be ordered in advance so we can schedule your harvest and delivery correctly.
Ordering timeline
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6–8
wks6–8 weeks before — idealPlace your order
Ideal lead time, especially for spring weddings, peak-season flowers (peonies, garden roses), or large orders. Enter your wedding date at checkout — we’ll schedule delivery for 3–5 days before.
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2–3
wks2–3 weeks before — standard minimumStandard order window
Most orders are placed 2–3 weeks in advance. This gives us time to schedule harvest, shipping, and ensure your flowers arrive at their best. For popular summer and fall weekends, earlier is always better.
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72
hrsLess than 72 hours — rush fee appliesShort-notice orders
We can often accommodate short-notice orders if you’re flexible on variety. A 10% rush fee applies. Some flowers may not be at their prime due to reduced conditioning time.
Order process step by step
- Browse flowers by variety or use the color filter to find flowers in your palette. Shop by color
- Check each product page for seasonal availability, grade, and stems per bunch.
- Add flowers, greens, and supplies to your cart.
- At checkout, enter your wedding date. We use this to schedule your harvest and delivery timing.
- Choose pickup at our Broadway location or local delivery.
- Complete checkout. We’ll contact you directly if we have any questions about availability or substitutions.
Pickup details
Portland Wholesale Florist
1638 NE Broadway, Portland OR
Mon–Fri: 10am–4pm
Saturday: 10am–3pm
Bring clean 5-gallon buckets — flowers will be in water and need to travel standing up.
Fees to know
Low-order fee: $8.00 for orders under $50.00
Rush fee: 10% for orders with less than 72 hours notice
Local delivery: Available in the Portland area. See delivery details.
Step 3
Flower care & conditioning
Here’s something most people don’t realize: by the time your flowers reach you, we’ve already done the hardest part. Before your order goes into our cooler, our team cuts the stems and places them in Floralife HydraFlor 100 hydrating solution to ensure they’re fully hydrated. Your flowers arrive ready to open — your job is simply to keep them happy until the wedding. Full Flower Care Guide
When you get home — four simple steps
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Prepare clean buckets
Wash buckets with dish soap and a drop of bleach, then rinse well. Bacteria in dirty buckets is the #1 reason flowers don’t last. If you purchased buckets from us, they’re ready to use — just rinse before refilling with fresh water.
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Fill with warm water & add Floralife flower food
Fill buckets with warm water and add Floralife flower food per the packet directions. Warm water helps tight buds open; flower food feeds the blooms and keeps the water clean. Available in our supplies section. Shop supplies
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Unwrap & place in water
Remove all packaging — cellophane, cardboard, rubber bands. Strip any foliage that would sit below the waterline (submerged leaves rot and foul the water). Place flowers in the prepared buckets. Sort by variety if possible — this makes arrangement day much easier.
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Store in a cool room & let them open
Keep flowers at 55–65°F, away from direct sunlight, heat vents, and fruit. Check water daily and top up as needed. Your flowers will open naturally over the next 1–3 days depending on variety. Flower opening times by variety →
Special care for specific flowers
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Hydrangea — needs extra attention
Hydrangeas are prone to wilting if they dry out at any point. Keep them in water at all times and mist the flower heads regularly with a spray bottle. If wilting occurs, re-cut the stem at a sharp angle and place immediately in fresh warm water — they often recover within a few hours. Keep away from heat and drafts.
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Peonies, roses & garden roses — timing is everything
These arrive in bud stage and need 3–5 days to fully open. Use warm water and good air circulation. Warmth speeds opening; cool rooms slow it. Never refrigerate. If buds are very tight two days before the wedding, move to a warmer room and use warm water to encourage opening. Flower opening times →
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Ranunculus — slower to open than expected
Ranunculus can take 4–5 days to fully open from tight bud — plan your pickup accordingly. Warm water helps. Handle gently; stems are delicate. Worth the patience: fully open ranunculus are spectacular.
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Lilies — remove pollen to protect fabric
All lily types need 3–7 days to open. Use warm water and overhead light. Important: lily pollen stains fabric permanently. Remove the orange anthers with a dry tissue as soon as they become accessible — do not use water or you’ll spread the stain.
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Stephanotis — refrigerate until use & needs wired stems
Keep in their original packaging in the refrigerator until you’re ready to use them. Never touch the petals directly — they brown on contact. Stephanotis require special wired stems (available in our supplies section) for use in boutonnieres and bouquets. Spray with Crowning Glory before and after arranging. Shop stephanotis stems
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Tropical flowers & orchids — keep warm
Tropical flowers hate cold — keep in a warm room away from air conditioning. Place in fresh warm water with flower food. Do not refrigerate. They are already hydrated when you pick them up; just keep them warm and in water until arrangement day.
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Tulips — they keep growing after cutting
Tulips continue to grow and move toward light after cutting — sometimes an inch or more per day. This is beautiful in loose, garden-style arrangements. To encourage straighter stems, wrap loosely in paper for the first 24 hours. Use cool water for tulips — they prefer it cooler than most flowers.
Step 4
Arranging tips for beginners
You don’t need to be a trained florist to create beautiful wedding arrangements. These are the principles professionals use — and they’re learnable in an afternoon of practice. Easy vs. difficult flowers
Four principles of a beautiful arrangement
1. Start with your mechanics
For vase arrangements, use floral foam (soak in water with Floralife until fully saturated — never force-submerge it), a flower frog, or chicken wire crumpled inside the vase. For bouquets, no mechanics needed — just a firm hand and a rubber band or stem wrap.
2. Greenery goes in first
Build your base with greenery before adding a single flower. Greenery creates the shape, volume, and frame. Ruscus and salal provide structure; eucalyptus provides movement and softness. Once your greenery is in, adding flowers becomes easy. Shop greens
3. Odd numbers look more natural
Place focal flowers in groups of 3, 5, or 7 — never 2 or 4. Two roses facing each other looks stiff; three roses in a loose triangle looks organic.
4. Vary your heights
Cut stems to different lengths before placing. Your tallest focal flower should be approximately 1.5× the height of the vase; supporting flowers slightly shorter; fillers go wherever there are gaps.
Hand-tied bouquet technique
- Hold a stem of greenery loosely in your non-dominant hand.
- Add stems one at a time, rotating slightly with each addition. This creates a natural spiral.
- Keep all stems at roughly the same angle — don’t let them splay.
- Add focal flowers (roses, peonies) evenly through the bunch.
- Fill gaps with supporting flowers and airy fillers.
- Secure with a rubber band near the bottom of the stems.
- Trim all stems to the same length at an angle.
- Place back in water until needed. Spray with Crowning Glory if outdoors.
Supplies you’ll want on hand
Floral knife or sharp scissors
Essential. Dull scissors crush stems and reduce water uptake. A sharp floral knife or bypass pruners are worth the investment.
Floral tape
Self-sealing tape for wrapping bouquet stems and securing mechanics. Stretches and sticks to itself when pulled. Available in green and white.
Floral wire
For wiring boutonnieres, corsages, and individual flower heads. Gauge 22 is the most versatile for wedding work.
Floral foam
For foam-based arrangements. Soak thoroughly in water with Floralife before use. Never dry-insert — it won’t re-absorb water.
Crowning Glory spray
Mist on finished arrangements to slow browning and protect petals. Essential for outdoor ceremonies and bouquets carried for hours.
Stem wrap / ribbon
For finishing bouquet handles. Satin ribbon, twine, or burlap — whatever fits your aesthetic. Secure with a pearl-head pin.
All supplies are available in our floral supplies section. Shop supplies
Step 5
Wedding week timeline
Print this out and put it on the refrigerator. This assumes a Saturday wedding — if your date is different, shift the days accordingly. All floral work happens Friday. Saturday morning is for everything else.
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Thu
or Wed*Thursday (summer) or Wednesday (winter) — Pickup dayFlowers arrive — your most important day
Collect your order Mon–Fri 10am–4pm, Sat 10am–3pm. Bring clean 5-gallon buckets. As soon as you get home: unpack everything, remove all packaging, strip lower foliage, re-cut stems at a 45° angle, and get them into water with Floralife immediately. Sort by variety into separate buckets. Store in a cool room (55–65°F) away from sunlight, heat vents, and fruit. Full conditioning guide Details
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Thu
eveThursday evening — Quick check10 minutes is all it takes
Check water levels and top up if needed. Remove any damaged outer petals. Check that slow-opening varieties — lilies, ranunculus, garden roses, peonies — are showing signs of progress. If still very tight, move to a slightly warmer spot. If anything is opening faster than expected, move to a cooler room to slow it down.
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Fri
mornFriday morning — AssessRe-cut & refresh
Re-cut stems and refresh water in all buckets. Most flowers should be well on their way to opening. If anything looks off, call us now — (503) 445-2967, Mon–Fri 10am–4pm. Better to troubleshoot in the morning than scramble in the afternoon.
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Fri
dayFriday — Your big work dayMake everything
Call in your team. Work in this order: centerpieces first, then ceremony flowers, then boutonnieres and corsages, then bridesmaid bouquets, then the bridal bouquet last. Keep all finished pieces in water or on wet foam. The bridal bouquet goes straight back into water after you finish — it will hold beautifully overnight. Spray all finished arrangements with Crowning Glory before storing.
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Fri
eveFriday evening — Wrap upFinal check & prep for transport
Mist all arrangements lightly. Pack centerpieces carefully in boxes. Stand bouquets in buckets of water overnight. Set out boutonnieres and corsages in a cool spot. You’re done with flowers for tonight — go enjoy your rehearsal dinner.
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Sat
mornSaturday morning — Wedding dayTransport, set up & celebrate
Re-cut the bridal bouquet stems and give it a final mist. Transport in a cool car — bouquets standing in buckets, arrangements packed flat and secured. Set up ceremony and reception flowers 3–4 hours before guests arrive. Hand out boutonnieres and corsages at least 2 hours before the ceremony. Keep the bridal bouquet in water until 20–30 minutes before it’s needed. Then put the flowers down and enjoy your wedding.
* Winter weddings pick up Wednesday to allow an extra day for slower-opening varieties. All other steps shift one day earlier accordingly.
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